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That confidence and peace you're searching for?
It's hidden behind the masks you're wearing
Since when did being yourself start to feel like a performance? You’ve learned how to play the parts, but damn, those masks are heavy. You’re showing up for everyone else, yet quietly wondering: when do I get to show up as me?
But here's the truth: you're ready
To stop abandoning yourself to old patterns and survival mode – and finally get the love and life you deserve
That's where The Real You™ comes in
Using my signature method, we’ll work with your body, breath, energy, and voice to release the codes that kept you small, and re-anchor the ones that set you free.
When your nervous system feels safe, your body feels like home and your voice is liberated. Confidence stops being a performance and starts being who you are.
introducing
The Real You™
A 4-month soul-deep journey to remember who you are, reclaim your power, and radiate your truth.
This isn’t just coaching. It’s a reclamation. Because when you feel safe in your body, connected to your heart, and unapologetic in your expression – you don’t just change. You glow differently.
By the end of The Real You™, you'll:
- Wake up calm, clear, and connected, instead of spiralling in "what will they think?"
- Look in the mirror without shame – and actually love who you see
- Speak your truth without rehearsing it 10 times in your head
- Stop outsourcing your worth to partners, parents, or perfectionism
- Feel grounded in your body and magnetic in your energy – because you're finally free
your journey includes:
Initial Mapping Session
Clarify your vision, chart your nervous system patterns, identify what’s holding you back, and stack your personal toolbox.
Somatic Reclamation Sessions
Deep guided 90-minute journeys to release conditioning and rewire new embodied truths across The Real You pillars.*
60-min coaching Sessions
Tailored online coaching and somatic support to weave the shifts into your everyday life.
The Real You™ Toolkit
Access to a library of workbooks, pre-recorded audios, guided meditations, somatic resets for those in-the-moment wobbles.*
WhatsApp Support (Mon-Fri)
Your soul-level bestie in your back pocket – voice notes, personalised guidance, and check-ins between sessions.
*tiers & payment plans available*
01. BOOK A CLARITY CALL
Book a clarity call so we can explore where you are, where you’re longing to be, and whether The Real You™ is the right journey to take you there.
02. SAY YES TO YOURSELF
Once you say yes to yourself, we’ll agree your start date. You’ll then receive your contract and payment link to secure your place in the container.
03. GET SUPPORTED FROM DAY ONE
Receive your onboarding form, welcome pack, and instant access to The Real You™ Toolkit, so you can begin softening the noise before we even meet.
04. BEGIN YOUR TRANSFORMATION
We’ll book your Mapping Session to set the foundation for everything that follows.
Tanvi’s Journey with The Real You
"This journey isn't about being 'fixed,' but about reclaiming what has always been mine: my voice, my value, and my power"
“When I began working with Virali, I was carrying weights that weren’t entirely mine – the unspoken expectation to be strong, to serve, to keep going at the cost of myself like so many women of colour. I knew this narrative well, but knowing it and undoing it are two very different things.
Working with Virali gave me a space free of judgment, where my void of loneliness softened into connection. For the first time, I felt safe enough to voice parts of me I had kept hidden, even from myself. With her guidance, I’ve untangled what is truly mine to hold, and what I can finally put down.
This work hasn’t been easy, but it has been liberating. I now carry myself with sharper awareness and more grace than I ever thought possible. The benefits pour into every aspect of life – from re-igniting passion for my business to developing a stronger self-concept. This journey isn’t about being ‘fixed,’ but about reclaiming what has always been mine: my voice, my value, and my power.
While I still make mistakes and slip into old habits, I know she continues to hold space for me through the ebb and flow. I feel like I’m becoming the version of me I always knew was possible.“
- Tanvi, Cinematic Content Creator
Do you ever feel like you're living on autopilot, following rules you never agreed to?
I'll help you break the cycle of self-abandonment and take back the driver's seat of your life.
I know what it’s like to be stuck in survival mode, repeating patterns that keep you doubting yourself. I’ve lived that story – and I chose to break the cycle.
I promise you don’t need to keep shrinking, settling, or waiting for “one day”. The version of you who feels grounded in her body, magnetic in her energy, and unapologetically herself is already here. She’s just waiting for you to choose her.
The only question is: are you ready?
Book Your Clarity Call
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you offer different pricing or payment options?
The Real You™ 1-1 program is a 4-month container and has Student, Pro, and VIP tiers, with monthly payment plans for each.
To explore what’s available and find an option that fits you best, simply mention it in your enquiry form or email me directly at hello@viralipatel.co.uk
What do you mean by ‘codes’?
Before you became “you,” you were coded: shaped by culture, family, history, your body, and even your pain. These codes shaped what you believed about your worth, your body, your voice, your desires, and your place in the world. They taught you how to survive, but not how to be free.
The Real You™ Method helps you untangle five layers of inherited coding:
1. Societal & Cultural Codes
The external expectations, beauty standards, gender narratives, and productivity pressures that shaped who you believed you had to be long before you ever chose it.
2. Family & Ancestral Codes
The unspoken rules you absorbed growing up. Inherited emotional patterns, roles, and survival behaviours passed down through your lineage that taught you how t love, how to stay safe, and which parts of yourself were allowed.
3. Body & Biological Codes
The nervous system imprinting, hormonal conditioning, trauma responses, and somatic memories stored in your body that dictate your capacity, intuition, and emotional expression.
4. Psychological & Emotional Codes
the internal beliefs, attachment patterns, shame stories, and identity narratives your mind created to make sense of your past – now running your behaviour, self-worth, and decisions.
5. Spiritual & Energetic Codes
The intuitive, archetypal, and energetic patterns shaped by feminine supression, spiritual distortion, and unconscious polarity imbalances that dim your inner power and self-trust.
Through this work, we don’t just talk about healing – we un-code it. Each session, practice, and ritual becomes a portal to gently rewrite these imprints – not through force, but through presence. This is how you stop performing confidence… and start embodying it.
Is this the right coaching for me?
This work isn’t for everyone. The Real You™ isn’t a quick fix or a “confidence hack.” I’m not here to hand you a step-by-step formula or guarantee you’ll be “fixed” in X weeks. Healing and reclamation don’t work that way.
What I am here to do is walk beside you as you come home to yourself – to support you in peeling back the masks, softening the survival patterns, and expanding into the woman you’re meant to be. That process takes radical self-responsibility, honesty, and willingness to sit with what’s uncomfortable as well as what’s beautiful.
The women who thrive in this work are the ones who are ready to say:
Truth → “I’m done pretending. I want to be fully me”.
Safety → “I’m willing to slow down and let my body lead”.
Sovereignty → “I don’t want answers handed to me – I want to find my own”.
Compassion → “I’m ready to meet every part of me with care, not criticism”.
Curiosity → “I’ll explore what comes up, instead of pushing it away”.
Connection → “I want healing that lasts because it’s rooted in relationship”.
If you’re looking for a coach to tell you exactly what to do, or a quick mindset shift that bypasses the body, I’m probably not the right fit.
But if you’re ready to walk into the real, messy, liberating work of unbecoming who you were told to be and reclaiming who you truly are – then this is for you.